LEARNING HOW TO PROPERLY DEAL WITH FAILURE
When you are a great and strive for greatness you will have forces come against you. Most of the success teachers or inspirational or motivational coaches won't keep it real with you.
They will talk of success and how you can accomplish it but they will leave out the parts of failure that will come upon you from others.They won't speak on racism. How a group of people will hate you for your skin tone and power.
They won't speak on envy. How people you love and care about will deliberately not support you and will lie and slander your name because they fear your success.
They won't tell you how people who are already successful will try to block or sabotage you because they fear your power and they see you as competition and they don't want you to take their shine.
They won't tell you how people will come together off of their envy or dislike of your way of thinking and will work together to keep you from opportunities or giving you the information they know that will catapult you to your dreams.
In the Success 4 Us book, I talk about how, " Life is filled with hateful people, people who don't love themselves and people who wants to project their dissatisfaction with life on you.""These people are miserable and you can't let them bring you down with them. People will do all types of things to you, lie on you, slander your name, steal from you, talk bad about you all because they want what you got or want to be you.
They will hate you for loving yourself. They will envy you for being happy. "They will try to ruin your life because they don't have a life. People will beat you up mentally and spiritually and will try to steal your smile but you must not allow them to steal your joy."
I done had people try to kill me several times, poisoning my food, sabotaging the bolts on my car, or try to lure me to a location to shoot me.I done had friends and associates sabotage opportunities, create lies, even tried to use my information out the Success 4 Us book and claim it as there's.
I done had family steal money from me and work with my enemies. I done had police steal money from me and lie about me getting it. I done had fbi agents doing the same thing. Being secretly recorded audio and video so they can try to catch me up or look for a way to assassinate my character.I done had church reverends steal and lie on me. People formed associations just to stop my progress. I've been placed under arrest illegally kidnapped and put into a crazy house under a fake name. Jobs steal money and hours from me and being denied a place to live.
But what all these people and associations could never do is steal my joy.
Instead of getting bitter I got better.
And I did it because you have to know how to properly deal with failure even when it is not caused by you.You must always know who you are and say it to yourself everyday no matter your ups or downs.
You are giving the greatest power in life and that is choice.You have the choice to become bitter or better. You have the choice to allow others to make you lose your joy or you can grow in your joy.
The main reason I set out to inspire and motivate others to have a goal or dream is because it gives you an aim. It gives you a reason to ignore the ignorance you will come up against and to keep moving straight ahead and not looking to the left or right where the distractions are.
And once you learn to set your goals and dreams you have the power to CHOOSE to be in control or you can give others that power by allowing them to change your mindset and lose.
KNOW YOUR POWER OF CHOICE AND CHOOSE TO BE SUCCESSFUL.
SUCCESSFUL is the person who says I'm going to become this and works toward that goal or dream.
THE KEY is: you must choose to become what you want and then you must WORK towards it. Keeping your joy takes effort and this is why I say EFFORT is everything because to keep joy it takes action. Love is a verb and a verb is an action.
SO CLOCK IN ON CHOOSING TO BE JOYFUL AND WORKING TOWARDS IT AND YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO PROPERLY DEAL WITH FAILURE.